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Much of the burden of STDs falls on adolescents and people in their early 20s, the CDC says.





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<p>The report, &#8220;Sexually Transmitted Disease Surveillance 2007,&#8221; also said that women and minorities in particular are more likely to have sexually transmitted diseases, or STDs.</p>
<p>That fact isn&#8217;t surprising, experts say, as studies on STDs in the past have also shown that women and minorities bear the greatest burden of STDs. The age of those affected hasn&#8217;t changed much either &#8212; nearly 19 million new sexually transmitted infections occur each year, and almost half of those affect 15- to 24-year-olds.</p>
<p>The CDC began a national syphilis elimination program in the late 1990s, targeted at African-American heterosexuals, especially women and their babies. As a result, the condition was nearly eradicated as an ongoing health problem in the United States.</p>
<p>But in the last two years, the trend has reversed, said Dr. John Douglas, director of the CDC&#8217;s Division of STD Prevention.</p>
<p>&#8220;The success we&#8217;ve been experiencing for a number of years in African-American heterosexual populations, particularly women, is beginning to be eroded,&#8221; he said.</p>
<p>Syphilis resurfaced as a danger in 2001, and cases went up by 15.2 percent between 2006 and 2007, the <a href="http://topics.edition.cnn.com/topics/centers_for_disease_control_and_prevention" class="cnnInlineTopic"><strong><span style="COLOR: #004276">CDC</span></strong></a> said.</p>
<p>Reported cases of chlamydia and gonorrhea together surpassed 1.4 million in 2007, the report said. Both of these conditions can cause infertility when left untreated. The CDC will address HIV rates in the United States in a later report.</p>
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<h4>A record number of chlamydia cases were reported nationally this year, the report said. But Douglas noted that a major strategy is detecting infection before it spreads, so each case is an opportunity to prevent ongoing transmission.</h4>
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<p>Chlamydia is the most common reportable STD and infectious disease, he said.</p>
<p>Since the early 1980s, there has been a dramatic downturn in gonorrhea cases, but for the last 10 years, the rates have leveled off, especially in African-American populations. The CDC is looking at a number of ways to create awareness of the problem, he said.</p>
<p><a href="http://topics.edition.cnn.com/topics/sexually_transmitted_diseases" class="cnnInlineTopic"><strong><span style="COLOR: #004276">STDs</span></strong></a> affect not only individuals&#8217; health, but also the economy, the CDC said &#8212; the conditions cost the U.S. health care system as much as $15.3 billion annually.</p>
<p>The report reflects what Dr. Yolanda Wimberly, assistant professor of clinical pediatrics at the Morehouse School of Medicine and the medical director for the Center for Excellence in Sexual Health, sees in the clinics where she works. In her 14 years of practicing, she has been diagnosing more and more cases of chlamydia, syphilis and gonorrhea, she said.</p>
<p>Based on the report and her own observations, it&#8217;s safe to say that some of the prevention efforts are not working, Wimberly said. New, innovative methods will be required to get through to this generation of young people, for whom text messaging and the Internet are integral parts of daily life.</p>
<p>Many <a href="http://www.stdcupid.net/">people with STD</a> hold the misconception that STDs come along with a visible sign, such as irregular discharge or a rash or bump. But, in fact, most STDs do not present symptoms, she said.</p>
<p>&#8220;That&#8217;s how STDs are so easily spread,&#8221; she said. &#8220;It&#8217;s not people who know they have gonorrhea and who go out say, &#8216;I&#8217;m going to spread it to all these people.&#8217; It&#8217;s the people who don&#8217;t even know, who maybe don&#8217;t get checked up regularly.&#8221;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s important to be screened at least once annually, even twice a year for younger people, Wimberly said. She offers to test everyone who comes into her office for STDs, even if they do not have any symptoms or came to see her for a different reason, if they haven&#8217;t been tested in at least the last six months.</p>
<p>However, not all doctors are so conscientious about STD testing, Douglas said.</p>
<p>Particularly in nonminority populations, doctors are inclined to think, &#8220;The young woman sitting in front of me looks pretty healthy, she looks pretty respectable &#8212; she wouldn&#8217;t have a sexually transmitted disease, right?&#8221; Douglas said. &#8220;We simply miss those screening opportunities.&#8221;</p>
<p>Other doctors simply don&#8217;t want to broach the subject of sex with their adolescent female patients, he said. There&#8217;s also the problem of access to health care &#8212; some women do not have physicians for this reason.</p>
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<p>Current prevention efforts include promoting awareness of STDs, personal protective behaviors such as limiting partners and using condoms, and screening programs, Douglas said. A key area to work on is normalizing conversations about STDs and sexual health, he said.</p>
<p class="cnnInline">&#8220;If the parents assume that&#8217;s the doctor&#8217;s business, or the teacher&#8217;s business, and don&#8217;t roll up their sleeves and get in there themselves, and if our schools aren&#8217;t giving comprehensive education, and if our clergy and other community leaders who are interested in youth well-being aren&#8217;t including sexual health on the agenda, we&#8217;re going to create missed opportunities.&#8221;</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Over the last year I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ve ever addressed this issue. I have to admit this issue is one the concerns most single people and some married people too. If you haven&#8217;t been affected by this, someone you know has been. As a single guy that dates and enjoys a healthy sexual appetite, I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Over the last year I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ve ever addressed this issue. I have to admit this issue is one the concerns most single people and some married people too. If you haven&#8217;t been affected by this, someone you know has been. As a single guy that dates and enjoys a healthy sexual appetite, I have to be careful with my sexual partner(s). I take the necessary precautions. I invest in Magnums and get tested on a regular basis.</p>
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<p>Over the years, I have close friends who have come in contact with a variety of Sexual Transmitted Diseases (STD). Everything from <a href="http://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/STDFact-herpes.htm" onclick="javascript:urchinTracker('/outbound/www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/STDFact-herpes.htm');">Herpes<img src="http://i.ixnp.com/images/v3.63/t.gif" style="BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(http://i.ixnp.com/images/v3.63/theme/ice/palette.gif); BORDER-BOTTOM: 0pt; POSITION: static; MIN-WIDTH: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; FONT-STYLE: normal; MARGIN: 0pt; MIN-HEIGHT: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; WIDTH: 14px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; DISPLAY: inline; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: no-repeat; FONT-FAMILY: 'trebuchet ms',arial,helvetica,sans-serif; MAX-WIDTH: 2000px; BACKGROUND-POSITION: -943px 0pt; FLOAT: none; HEIGHT: 12px; VISIBILITY: visible; MAX-HEIGHT: 2000px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: top; BORDER-TOP: 0pt; TOP: auto; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; BORDER-RIGHT: 0pt; TEXT-DECORATION: none; PADDING-TOP: 1px; LEFT: auto" name="snap_com_shot_link_icon" height="12" width="14" id="snap_com_shot_link_icon" class="snap_preview_icon"/></a>, <a href="http://www.cdc.gov/std/gonorrhea/stdfact-gonorrhea.htm" onclick="javascript:urchinTracker('/outbound/www.cdc.gov/std/gonorrhea/stdfact-gonorrhea.htm');">Gonorrhea<img src="http://i.ixnp.com/images/v3.63/t.gif" style="BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(http://i.ixnp.com/images/v3.63/theme/ice/palette.gif); 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As most of you know, you can&#8217;t judge a book by it&#8217;s cover. The cleanest, the prettiest and most beautiful man/woman can have a STD.</p>
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<p>There have been a few times where I&#8217;ve met women who told me upfront of their status. A few years ago, I met a woman and she told me during our initial Starbucks date. It was a very pleasant conversation. She casually mentioned that she had Hepatitis C. She also went on to tell me that she contracted it from her ex-husband. I have to admit that she gained my respect by telling me upfront, instead of waiting weeks later while I&#8217;m half naked and horny.</p>
<p>The next time I had a woman tell me during a phone conversation that she has Herpes. It also was in a casual conversation. This woman told me that she was totally comfortable with her health. She also discussed how she maintains a safe sexual lifestyle. There was no way I could think anything negative because of her forward and direct conversations.</p>
<p>The reason I decided to write about STD&#8217;s is because I had a discussion with a close friend regarding Sexual Transmitted Diseases. As much as you attempt to protect yourself, there are times when you don&#8217;t make the best decisions. You know how it happens. You&#8217;re out having drinks and you end up having oral sex with someone you don&#8217;t have a long history with. A few days later you have a sore throat or signs of a cold. The first thing you think about is where you had your mouth a few days ago. Damn, you begin to think the worst. That&#8217;s how quick your life can change.</p>
<p>One of my close friends contracted Herpes. It changed her life, at least for a few months. At first she was devastated. She swore off sex until marriage. She claimed she was going to change her life and settle down. She&#8217;s not going to meet men in bars or clubs. She felt as if her life was over. It took almost a year before she was able to admit to herself that she has a STD. Until that point, she restricted her sexual activities to masturbation and a partner that was aware of her issue. The reality is, her sexual health will never be the same. I&#8217;m not sure if she has changed her sexual habits permanently, but it&#8217;s her life.</p>
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<p>A few months ago, I met someone who told me that she has the <a href="http://www.cdc.gov/STD/HPV/STDFact-HPV.htm" onclick="javascript:urchinTracker('/outbound/www.cdc.gov/STD/HPV/STDFact-HPV.htm');"><strong>human papillomaviru</strong><img src="http://i.ixnp.com/images/v3.63/t.gif" style="BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(http://i.ixnp.com/images/v3.63/theme/ice/palette.gif); BORDER-BOTTOM: 0pt; POSITION: static; MIN-WIDTH: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent; FONT-STYLE: normal; MARGIN: 0pt; MIN-HEIGHT: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; WIDTH: 14px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; DISPLAY: inline; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: no-repeat; FONT-FAMILY: 'trebuchet ms',arial,helvetica,sans-serif; MAX-WIDTH: 2000px; BACKGROUND-POSITION: -943px 0pt; FLOAT: none; HEIGHT: 12px; VISIBILITY: visible; MAX-HEIGHT: 2000px; VERTICAL-ALIGN: top; BORDER-TOP: 0pt; TOP: auto; FONT-WEIGHT: normal; BORDER-RIGHT: 0pt; TEXT-DECORATION: none; PADDING-TOP: 1px; LEFT: auto" name="snap_com_shot_link_icon" height="12" width="14" id="snap_com_shot_link_icon" class="snap_preview_icon"/></a> (HPV). Now I&#8217;m not a doctor, so I had to do some research. That meant I started with google and ended up talking to a couple friends that are doctors. It took a while, but I became educated on the issue. It made me aware of the risk involved <strong>IF</strong> I was in a relationship with her.</p>
<p>So I have to ask a couple questions for my readers is, if your romantic interest told you that they have a STD, would you continue pursuing a relationship with them? Do you discuss sexual health with your friends? How soon in a relationship should you discuss your sexual health?</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>70</strong> million people are living with STDs in the U.S. Results of a nationally representative study show that genital herpes infection is common in the United States. Nationwide, at least 45 million people ages 12 and older, or one out of five adolescents and adults, have had genital HSV infection. Between the late 1970s and the early 1990s, the number of Americans with genital herpes infection increased 30 percent.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s estimated about 1 in 4 women have genital herpes (25%), while 1 in 5 men have the virus (20%). The truth is that at least 60% of the adult population has herpes.</p>
<p>You see some people for reasons known only to them decided to exclude people with herpes above the waist- people who get so-called &#8220;cold sores&#8221; on their mouths and faces, from the herpes statistics commonly reported in the media, then reporting only the percentage of people who get herpes below the waist- so-called genital herpes. This makes no sense at all since the scientific literature doesn&#8217;t classify herpes simplex 1 (cold sores) as a different disease as herpes simplex 2 (genital herpes)- but rather as two different types of the same disease, and since many of the new cases of herpes of the genital area is actually caused by people getting herpes simplex 1 on their genitals from oral sex. There really is no such thing as &#8221; cold sores&#8221; -it is simplex herpes simplex 1 of the mouth or face. And those who have it need not be in denial pretending that it&#8217;s anything other than herpes simplex. The truth is that you can get herpes simplex 1 on almost any part of your body including your nose, your elbows, your fingers, your stomach, your genitals, your anus, etc. The truth is that herpes simplex is herpes simplex and it is only misleading to not include the people with herpes simplex 1 in herpes statistics.</p>
<p>Somewhere between 20 and 25% of the population get their herpes sores below the waist and somewhere between 50 and 80% of the population gets their herpes sores above the waist. If you factor in the number of people who have both herpes 1 and 2 at the same time, you are left understanding that at least 60% of the population has herpes simplex. Which rings true when you consider that 70% of the adult population has HPV (genital warts or cervical dysplasia) and that 80% of the adult population has had chlymydia at least once.</p>
<p>In the UK approximately 70% of people have the virus that causes cold sores (HSV-1) and approximately 10% have genital herpes (HSV-2). Remember thought that HSV-2 and HSV-1 infections can be transmitted between genitals and face and vice versa.</p>
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		<title>Thank you for bringing us together</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:33:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[After many years of proactively looking for the one. I finally decided to take a new path. I decided to work on myself and become the person I wanted to be whilst in a relationship rather than focusing on what I could get out of a relationship. I enrolled in a course called Avatar which [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After many years of proactively looking for the one. I finally decided to take a new path. I decided to work on myself and become the person I wanted to be whilst in a relationship rather than focusing on what I could get out of a relationship. I enrolled in a course called Avatar which is about exploring consciousness and discovering any limiting beliefs which hold us back in our lives and I began working on being the best person, friend and partner I could be. It was important to me to have integrity with my dating so I utilized STDcupid.net while I was working on myself. My future partner, Brandon was doing the same thing (that is doing self development but through the Oneness University) at the same time. Using the Avatar tools I set a goal to meet my life partner who was on the same path as me. A couple of days later I got an email from Brandon from the website. It was the most beautiful, genuine, amazing message I had received in my life. I was blown away. I never actually expected anything to come out of being on this website. He had seen my profile and it was love at first sight / read for him. He was living in the US and I was based in Australia but that didn&#8217;t worry him so he shared his heart with me without any concerns for if we would ever meet or not. Interestingly enough I was in Florida with Avatar at the time of receiving his email so after a couple of weeks of speaking online and on the phone we decided to meet before I flew back to Australia. Brandon flew from Park City, Utah to Orlando to meet me. The goal I had was to meet my life partner by the 31st of October 2008 and Brandon and I met each other in person at 11.45pm on the 31st of October. The moment I saw him I knew he was the one. We were in love and talking about our future together before we&#8217;d even kissed. It was an old fashioned love story using modern day technology. Long-story-short Brandon asked me to stay in the US with him and I said yes. I&#8217;m still here and we&#8217;re talking about getting married soon. When you know you just know. Thank you STDcupid. for being part of our love story. I know Brandon and I were meant to be together but I&#8217;m not sure how we would have met without this website.</p>
<p><br/><strong>Advice to other members:</strong><br/><br/>This website is cool but is just the first step. Find yourself before you go looking for someone to fulfill you. Write a list of all the qualities you want to develop and experience in yourself. If you still feel that you haven&#8217;t dealt with your experience around getting an STI then get help with this - don&#8217;t take this into your relationship expecting it to be all ok just because the other person has the same STI. Love yourself and be grateful for everything - that positive energy will attract the right person to you. Always be honest about your condition and be open to the idea that you may meet someone special who doesn&#8217;t have the same condition as you - there is a great deal of compassion and unconditional love in the world - let it into your heart.</p>
<p>STDcupid.net &#8211;<a href="http://www.stdcupid.net/">The biggest <strong>Dating</strong> Site For singles with <strong>herpes</strong>.Find Match near you</a>!</p>
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		<title>We&#8217;re Hitched!!!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:29:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We never thought this would actually work but who knew&#8230;.. It does!! We are so thankful for STDcupid.net so thank you to who ever created it. We talked for 1 month before we met in person. That was the best way in our eyes; you get to know someone for them before the physical attraction [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We never thought this would actually work but who knew&#8230;.. It does!! We are so thankful for <a href="http://www.stdcupid.net/">STDcupid.net</a> so thank you to who ever created it. We talked for 1 month before we met in person. That was the best way in our eyes; you get to know someone for them before the physical attraction kicks in. That day was amazing!! Everything was so PERFECT (kind of scary really)!!! We had so many things in common it was ridiculous, from the same contact solution to things that made us smile. The time flew by that night and we didn&#8217;t want it to end. We lived an hour and a half from each other and spent more time together then someone that was only 5 minutes away. Finally after only 6 months of dating we moved in together and 3 years later we decided make it official aka get married, CRAZY!! We now have 5 kids (3 dogs and 2 cats)! Things are AWESOME and we could not be enjoying our selves more!!</p>
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		<title>Condoms do not give foolproof STD protection</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 15:49:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I REFER to the report, &#8220;Stories to chase away blushes&#8221; (my paper, Nov 28), which said that condom manufacturer Durex had published seven light-hearted stories to educate readers on safe sex.
The stories give the impression that condoms offer protection to users against sexually-transmitted diseases.
But how effective are condoms in preventing Aids and venereal diseases?

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I REFER to the report, &#8220;Stories to chase away blushes&#8221; (my paper, Nov 28), which said that condom manufacturer Durex had published seven light-hearted stories to educate readers on safe sex.</p>
<p>The stories give the impression that condoms offer protection to users against sexually-transmitted diseases.</p>
<p>But how effective are condoms in preventing Aids and venereal diseases?</p>
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</script> In the book The Facts Of Life, which is an authoritative guide to life and family issues, Dr Brian Clowes says: &#8220;Two types of male condoms are commonly available today.</p>
<p>&#8220;These are the latex condom and the animal-membrane (skin) condom.</p>
<p>&#8220;Experts generally agree that skin condoms are not effective in preventing Aids and venereal disease.</p>
<p>&#8220;There is disagreement over the efficacy of latex condoms in preventing Aids and venereal disease.&#8221;</p>
<p>He cautions: &#8220;What&#8217;s more, even (the) perfect use of unbroken condoms will not protect against VDs that are spread by skin-to-skin contact, such as human papillomavirus and herpes simplex virus, which frequently infect the entire genital area.</p>
<p>&#8220;Finally, many VDs, such as gonorrhoea and herpes, are transmitted by oral sex, which is usually practised with multiple sexual partners.&#8221;</p>
<p>Therefore, we should not delude ourselves and think that using condoms will give us full protection against sexually-transmitted diseases.</p>
<p>Parents should also not buy the idea that the best way to keep their sexually-active teens from contracting Aids and venereal diseases is to encourage them to use condoms and provide them with more education on contraception.</p>
<p>There is nothing safer than abstinence to ensure that you are kept safe from sexually-transmitted diseases.</p>
<p>If one is married, a disciplined lifestyle without engaging in casual sex is the only solution.</p>
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		<title>I have met someone through this site!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 15:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
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I have met someone through this site! I was just searching through profiles and came across his and wrote to him and he wrote me back, then we started talking on the phone-we would sometimes talk for 3 or 4 hours a night, then about 3 weeks later I flew from Denver to Orlando to [...]]]></description>
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<p>I have met someone through this site! I was just searching through profiles and came across his and wrote to him and he wrote me back, then we started talking on the phone-we would sometimes talk for 3 or 4 hours a night, then about 3 weeks later I flew from Denver to Orlando to visit him and that&#8217;s how it all started. We plan to spend the rest of our lives together! Here is a pic of us from last weekend. Thanks for providing this website for us!</p>
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		<title>feel so lucky to have found someone to share all that life has to have offer</title>
		<link>http://stdcupid.net/herpes/?p=21</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 15:39:54 +0000</pubDate>
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A &#38; J OBAMA Victory!!!!!! Grant Park 2008
My partner and I met on STDcupid.net in July 08. We messaged back and forth for about a month. Finally she drove to Chicago for our first date. We had dinner downtown and walked around Michigan Avenue and down by the lakefront. Our first date was 7 hours [...]]]></description>
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<p><span style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; BORDER-COLLAPSE: separate; FONT: 10px Arial; WHITE-SPACE: normal; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(0,0,0); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: none; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0" class="Apple-style-span">A &amp; J OBAMA Victory!!!!!! Grant Park 2008</span><br/></p>
<p>My partner and I met on STDcupid.net in July 08. We messaged back and forth for about a month. Finally she drove to Chicago for our first date. We had dinner downtown and walked around Michigan Avenue and down by the lakefront. Our first date was 7 hours long. There was an instant connection and the conversation flowed naturally. Allie lived 2.5 hours away, with only Interstate 57 between us, we took turns driving back and forth from Chicago to Champaign on the weekends. One of the best experiences we had together was at Grant Park on the night that Obama was elected. We are two independent, strong people who feel so lucky to have found someone to share all that life has to have offer.</p>
<p><br/><strong>Advice to other members:</strong><br/><br/>It is always Darkest before Dawn as the old Proverb Goes&#8230; Dont Give Up Hope.. Fear Nothing &amp; Experience Everything.. Otherwise You Could Miss Out On Some Of The Best &amp; Most Important Things That Life Has To Offer!!!!</p>
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		<title>Single With Herpes and Online Dating</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Jan 2009 18:31:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Honesty and openness with potential partners is of the most importance when you are single with herpes. This was important to you before you contracted HSV, why wouldn&#8217;t it be now? Let&#8217;s face it-it&#8217;s difficult to tell someone that you suffer from genital herpes. Now with online dating, we are meeting people who are almost [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="TEXT-TRANSFORM: none; TEXT-INDENT: 0px; BORDER-COLLAPSE: collapse; FONT: 13px arial; WHITE-SPACE: normal; LETTER-SPACING: normal; COLOR: rgb(0,0,0); WORD-SPACING: 0px; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: none; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0" class="Apple-style-span">Honesty and openness with potential partners is of the most importance when you are <a href="http://www.stdcupid.net/">single with herpes</a>. This was important to you before you contracted HSV, why wouldn&#8217;t it be now? Let&#8217;s face it-it&#8217;s difficult to <a href="http://stdcupid.net/how-to-tell.html">tell someone</a> that you suffer from genital herpes. Now with online dating, we are meeting people who are almost perfect strangers much more frequently. Having to tell a stranger that you have herpes is not exactly how most people want to begin their first date. But now, there are sites out there that understand the problems single herpes sufferers face and are hooking up successful, happy couples through herpes dating<br/><br/>Approximately 50 million Americans have genital herpes. That&#8217;s about twenty-five percent of the population! Herpes Simplex Virus or HSV is twice as common among people between 20 and 29 years old than it was twenty years ago. Studies show that as much as 80 <a href="http://www.stdcupid.net/withherpes/percentage_of_people_living_with_herpes.html">percent of the herpes population</a> is unaware that they have the virus. Although there is still no cure, scientists are working on topical solutions and vaccines that can help combat the spread of HSV. With treatment herpes can be managed and not transferred to your partner.<br/><br/>For <a href="http://www.stdcupid.net/herpes_meet.html">singles with Herpes</a> dating is complicated. Many suffers that are single find that <a href="http://www.stdcupid.net/"/><a href="http://www.stdcupid.net/">dating with h</a><a href="http://www.stdcupid.net/">erpes</a> is a headache. Having HSV isn&#8217;t easy. Neither is online dating. But now, online dating for people with herpes is easier than ever before. There are dating services and websites that specialize in herpes dating which help sufferers find partners who are also single with herpes.<br/><br/>Single HSV sufferers are going online in greater numbers than ever before to herpes dating sites that offer privacy and protection without later guilt or embarrassment of explaining HSV to a love interest. Online dating for people with herpes just got less complicated.<br/><br/>You&#8217;ll find a community of people that share many things: interests and hobbies; likes and dislikes; values, goals and dreams. What sets apart from other online dating websites is that you don&#8217;t have to hide anymore-everyone seeking love and deep, meaningful relationships at are living with Herpes, HIV or AIDS. If you&#8217;re single with herpes it&#8217;s time to pull your profile together and meet others like you. Search for singles with herpes and forget the headaches and hiding.</span><br/>
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		<title>Genital Herpes May be Reversed with Natural Medicine</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Jan 2009 05:48:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many doctors claim that 1 in 10 people are carrying the virus for genital herpes. Yet genital herpes is rarely discussed in society and often leaves those infected feeling isolated and doomed. Fortunately, hope exists. With the right combination of herbs and nutrition at the right dose, genital herpes can be reversible.Genital herpes is transmitted [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many doctors claim that 1 in 10 people are carrying the virus for genital herpes. Yet genital herpes is rarely discussed in society and often leaves those infected feeling isolated and doomed. Fortunately, hope exists. With the right combination of herbs and nutrition at the right dose, genital herpes can be reversible.<br/><br/>Genital herpes is transmitted through sexual intercourse and sometimes oral sex. The first outbreak of herpes is called the Primary infection. It lasts for 10-14 days and symptoms may include general flu complaints, small groups of painful blisters that appear around the genitals or anus, and vaginal discharge in women. After the first outbreak, some people have regular reoccurences, while others may never have another symptom, although the virus still lies dormant. The problem is that approximately 4 out 5 people who have the herpes virus have no idea that they have it because the symptoms are so mild, therefore spreading it unknowingly. Even if there are no symptoms at all, the virus may still be in the area, and there is a 1 in 10 chance of passing it on.<br/><br/>Because doctors claim there is no cure, it seems like a life sentence. Those who are infected may feel unclean, tainted, and have lowered self- esteem. Sexual contact including kissing should be avoided during an outbreak. That the virus may be active even without symptoms means that unprotected sex with future partners will always be risky. Often people feel that their sex life is ruined and relationships tarnished by this &#8220;permanent&#8221; virus.<br/><br/>Unlike other chronic illnesses including HIV, there is no support group for people with genital herpes. Those infected often feel alone and burdened. Because so little is known about the disease, they may feel embarrassed to tell friends, family, and certainly sexual partners.<br/><br/>Whilst the medical profession views genital herpes as incurable, it has been discovered that with natural medicine, it can be reversed. Herbs such as galangal, lapacho, astragalus, una de gato (also known as Cat&#8217;s Claw), myrrh, ligustrum and pansy are antiviral. Thyme, licorice, and cayenne are all herbs that specifically fight the herpes virus.<br/><br/>Reishi, which is a mushroom, boosts the immune system and is also antiviral. Lysine is an amino acid which is known to control and aid in the prevention of Herpes.<br/><br/>Thuja cream and propolis can be put directly onto the skin to soothe the irritation caused by the blisters, as well as combat herpes itself.<br/><br/>To reverse herpes, as well as defend against its return, a healthy immune system is vital. Echinacea, vitamin c, and zinc are some of the nutrients that help build healthy immunity.<br/><br/>In order to get the right dose and combination of nutrition, it is important to see a practitioner who can ensure that the treatment is tailored for each individual. While two people can have exactly the same symptoms, they may need entirely different treatments. If you are suffering from this virus, find a practitioner who is experienced with treating genital herpes.<br/><br/>The most important thing to remember is that with natural medicine there is a lot of hope. Genital herpes is reversable and many people who once suffered tremendously from continual outbreaks are now enjoying healthy, active sex lives.<br/><br/></p>
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